Wilwarin Lor: Tired of shitty men and shitty friends

bookisheyes:

wilwarin-lor:

I have felt gross all day. On the outside, on the inside. My stomach has been in knots, and all because of a few silly words. Not insulting, nothing that was that big of a deal, not to any regular human being (perhaps because society tells us to lie down and take it.) My mood jumped off a cliff the moment it sank in. My boyfriend was saying how my pseudo-ex brought up a picture of some leggy female and was all “now that’s sexy.” Welp, I knew you were an asshole, but could you lust after women in your own home without dragging my man along? You obviously don’t respect me or my relationship. I don’t want your asshole attitude and being a shitty boyfriend (beyond that) rubbing off on my boyfriend who obviously respects me more than you respect your own girlfriend. He just gained about fifty trust points while my “friends” lost every single one of their own. Maybe they should take a note at what a good boyfriend is, because they’re already so desirable.Then, when he told them he really liked short legs, they called him crazy. Yes, he likes something his GIRLFRIEND has… That is absurd! He respects his girlfriend enough to not lust after other women, also absurd! Last I checked one of their girlfriends was shorter than me. How nice that you openly drool over other women while your girl is currently miles away from you, thinking about you everyday, wishing she could be close to you. If I were you, first I’d punch myself in the face, then I’d think about her everyday like she deserves considering she thinks the world of you. Don’t plant your brainwashed and dated beauty ideals in my boyfriend’s mind. He happens to like short, pale, brunettes, so shove it up your worn out ass. I know you haven’t been able to move beyond what has been told to you, but my boyfriend is wonderful and he digs short chicks. Assquatch would probably say I was brainwashed by my religion, but he’s brainwashed by society. At least mine (the way I was taught) wants good for people and wants to avoid hurting people, whereas his way is to just sweep it under the rug and do it behind their backs. So, looky here Bonbon and Assquatch, back the fuck off with your two-faced “good guy” acts. I sincerely doubt you’re going to find a long-legged, smart, beautiful girl that you want, so get over yourselves. Those kind of women are too smart to date you. Maybe if you grew and personality and some damn ambition you could find a girl, but considering no one ever calls you out, I doubt that will happen anytime soon. You aren’t all that and a bag of chips, honey. I have had quite a few experiences with Bonbon to prove he’s a piece of shit (more than anyone knows.) Really? You’re going to fuck with me even more? Wonderful, but I think you’ve done quite enough. Squatch, on the other hand, is just a dick. I’d love you dump you all as friends at this point, but considering my boyfriend is already friends with you I’m not going to make it awkward or force him to stop being your friend. I want him to be happy, and if I have to withstand you jack-wagons then I will for him. I am, however, at least going to ask my boyfriend to stand up for me and our relationship and tell them that if they respect me and his relationship, then they will fucking act like it, and if they don’t they better fucking act like it anyway. I sure hope he has more balls with his friends than Bonbon did, because Bonbon has zero. 

Reblogging because bitches need to step off and respect my bestie and her relationship.

Also, the Assquatch in question once said, “rape isn’t that bad.” I wanted to falcon punch him. You take your bitch-ass over to any one of my friends or family members who have been raped or molested and you tell them that it “isn’t that bad” or ask them whether or not it had a huge negative impact on their lives. Why don’t you stop being a loud-mouthed, arrogant know-it-all for two seconds and allow someone else express an opinion FOR ONCE and learn something for a change. I’m sick of living in a world where women are taught not to be raped while men are not taught not to rape and walk around having these disgusting ideas that rape isn’t a serious issue. And don’t think I don’t see through your apology. You may feel bad for angering us, but I highly doubt your opinion actually changed. Judging by the wording of your apology, I’m sure it didn’t.

This applies to both Assquatch and Bonbon: I’m sick of all these men being totally insensitive to women’s issues. Sure, it doesn’t effect YOUR life. You’re privileged as hell. You’re an affluent white male who doesn’t even have to get a driver’s license despite being in his twenties because everything is handed to you and you mooch off of everyone else for rides to wherever you need to go. But open your eyes to something beyond your nose for a change. Realize that women have body issues and showing a girl’s boyfriend a picture of a “sexy woman” - which you shouldn’t even be looking at and saying “now that’s sexy” when you also have a girlfriend - is going to make her feel insecure about her body and hurt her. Realize that your views on basically all women’s issues are FUBAR. Realize that sexualizing and objectifying women is wrong to begin with. The woman in that picture is more than a set of gams. And stop being so damn full of yourself. You’re not some special snowflake who poops rainbows and sneezes butterflies.

Ugh, Sarah, I am so with you. I’m so ready to ditch these two and find better friends. Too bad all of our other friends are basically connected to us through them. Pffft.

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I know. I personally think it’s worth it, but I know Kyle likes them or is at least using them for D&D and Magic. Assqautch also told Kyle about a girl he likes who is most likely out of his league just like Bonbon’s sister. I love how we’ve known him for close to two years and we get nothing. I’m pretty sure it’s just because we don’t have penises. Guy code and all that absolute fucking shit. The only thing I could tell Kyle was that I felt insecure, but I’m not sure he even knows what I was referring to at that point. He said that I have no reason to feel insecure, but I can point out hundreds of reasons. My short legs, my big hips, my pudge, etc. The list goes on and on. No, my legs are not long in any way, shape, or form. I wouldn’t have ever known that without your help at my 5’2” stature, thank you. I wish one of those insensitive little ass-hats could just step into my (or almost any woman’s) shoes for one day and see what it’s like to keep the distrust and insecurities from eating you alive, and how much harder people like them make it for the lot of us.